IT'S HARD TO BREATHE, BUT THAT'S ALRIGHT

 Life is a tasty meal of both spicy and sweet dishes, but at times dessert arrives late and loading up on spicy food brings tear. Yes, life isn't easy, it is hard, rough and unfair at times. Sometimes, you might even have a string of bad events happening in your life. When life is hard it becomes really easy to fall into trap of despair and negativity, but by changing the way we look at the hardship and our circumstances, we can find a path through. The tunnel is dark and seems like it has not got any end, feels like traveling in a dark tunnel with loudspeakers dictating their opinions on your life and then you start hating those people speaking unnecessarily poking their noses into your matter. You don't know whom to listen, what to accept and what to ignore. 

Everyone is trying to rule over you, you have to make compromises which aren't temporary, it feels like your entire life is a compromise. holding onto God and universe, having faith seem like toughest jobs. Loses aren't that tough but dealing with the consequences surely are. At times we know what to do but our rein is in the hands of others which no matter how hard you try, you can't let it go, at times it is because you care about others more than you do to yourself. 

But we fall, we stand, we walk, we run, we jump it's what life is. We learn and grow through the hard times, we become resilient and this is how life works, new trouble each time sucking our souls and brains from inside, we want to cry but how long will we?

WE NEED TO REMEMBER SOME THINGS WHENEVER WE FALL TRAP TO SUCH SITUATIONS

1. THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF TUNNEL

Hey! you aren't fighting for nothing. There is an exit to your situation. A times will come when you will regain your say in your life, maybe not today but soon. Your past wasn't a cake walk, but you dealt with everything and you are here, fighting and winning every obstacle, this one will pass soon. And there is no problem without solution.

2. LIFE IS A BUNCH OF CHANGES SEWED TOGETHER

I wish we had no changes and everything was smooth forever, just the same.

I wish we had the best people by our side forever and dark phases stay away, but thinking about such world is just deceiving yourself .

Change is one of the hardest parts about life. But, it’s something that will never stop.

Maybe trying to embrace it more would help cushion the blow. You need to change in order to grow, and things around you do too.

Changes aren't that worse it's more about how we react to those changes, IT'S ABOUT OUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE.

3. IT'S OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY

You don't always have to be in the best mindset, you don't have to be good to everyone every moment. You don't always have to be happy or act happily , just embrace what you are feeling, at least be real in front of you. 

We all go through touch crap, and ignoring that won't help. How long can you put yourself under shade?

You feel like everyone sucks? Just take a break, spend time with yourself.

Let go whatever/whosoever sucks.

4. YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Shit goes down with everyone, not everyone shows it maybe beause they don't want to put others in worry state or maybe they aren't good at expressing themselves or maybe they don't want others to know. But everyone in this world is going through something or the other that takes away their mind and soul from attaining peace.  

And feelings are what make us human beings.

And yes people are there for you. 

5. NO MATTER WHAT, TODAY IS A PRICELESS GIFT AND MAKE THE BEST OUT OF IT

There is always, always, always, something to be grateful for. Strength comes when you have so much to cry and complain about, but you prefer to smile and appreciate your life instead. 

If nothing be grateful for life, for beautiful nature, for tress, for birds , for animals around. Our nature is itself a great refreshing point , it's wonderful and beautiful when you look at the things around , feel the nature. 

6. EVERY CHALLENGE IS AN OPPORTUNITY

Long back you had some problems and obstacles in life, which are no longer here. You have developed a tolerance and you know the way to find way out it. Maybe it was haunting that times but it isn't now. This is how we grow and mould our self into a person we need to be to survive in this world.

The feeling that you have been able to learn something is immensely empowering, and it helps you to build up the inner strength and emotional armor for any future hard times.

7. HABITS ARE THE HARDEST THING IN THIS WORLD TO BREAK

Be conscious of your daily habits, especially the negative ones. Don’t constantly fall back into toxic patterns, which will always try to come back into your life.

8. LAST THING TO REMEMBER

Life won't ever be problem free.

No amount of money can give you a life without problems.

In fact, I believe money just provides hope, it's universe what actually brings about changes and controls everything, and what stays in our power is how we handle it.

But, life just doesn’t work that way. You will have moments when everything is going great, and then you’ll hit a speed bump.

During these times, just remember it’s a part of life. It’s not a direct hit to you.

Never let a problem knock you down because if it does, even without knowing you will see yourself under the burden of tons of obstacles.

Trust yourself and look back at times when life wasn't great but you handled it with immense boldness and got victory at the end. 

Hope this helps you in someway or the other.

XOXO :)